If you’re like me, then you’ve been in a relationship for four years and you’re not married and you don’t have plans for it. This is when you’re in a middle zone with the boyfriend/girlfriend’s parents and family overall. Hopefully they’re really into you; at this point they should be. These are the rules to follow for going to their home for a visit and reinforcing your awesomeness, without being a smothering, Jewish Martha Stewart-type.
- Ask questions. Even if you’re not getting the full “Hi, how are you? We missed you so much” action, you’re gonna need to provide that feeling for everyone. Be warm and ask about everything and listen and then ask even more questions. This ONLY works if you are actually willing to make a conversation of it. So pay attention to what they say and retain it for earning points later in the trip or really any time.KEEP READING!